A woman’s body is an incredibly sensuous creation. The slightest kiss on the right spot can send shivers down her spine, give her chills or goosebumps, or make her body shake with delight. Some women can even achieve orgasm from being kissed in the right place, even with no contact with her genitals! The right touch for kissing is easier said than done. Bad kissing can completely kill the mood, or worse. Kiss too hard on her neck and you’ll leave an embarrassing mark, suck too hard on her breast and you could hurt her. If your kiss is too light, you might tickle her. And of course, if you simply aren’t making her feel good, you will bore her, and she will be turned off.
1. THE LIPS: Smooching, French kissing, tongue action, sucking face, first base – no matter what you want to call it, kissing on the lips is essential. Being a great kisser can mean the difference between only getting a kiss, and getting much more. A woman’s skin is quite sensitive, and this is especially true around the lips. Keep a clean shave, or condition your beard or mustache so it doesn’t irritate her skin. Few things ruin a kiss faster for a woman than feeling sandpaper rubbed on her face.
2. THE NECK: The skin on the sides of the neck is some of the most sensitive on the body. Give it slow, sensual kisses with minimal suction. Drag the smooth, wet skin of your inner lips slowly over her skin and you’ll already start to hear her moan softly. Don’t be afraid to let your tongue play too, but don’t slobber her. After the kiss, her skin should be dry within a minute. Neck kisses can go from just below her earlobe, down to just over her collarbone. Don’t kiss the front of her neck, as even slight contact can push on her windpipe.
3. THE EARS: Ears are often neglected, but they’re a great spot for kissing. Gently suck on her earlobe and run your tongue behind her ear. This can be an especially good place to kiss during sex. Be careful though, loud breathing or kissing noises directly into the ear are not sexy at all.
4. BOOBS: After her garden, her breasts are the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. Some women can even achieve orgasm just from having them kissed. Anywhere on either breast is highly sensual, but the nipple is the most sensitive part. You can usually kiss the breasts harder than other body parts, but keep in mind that every woman is different. Strong groping and sucking might feel amazing to one woman, but painful to another. Nipple squeezing and pinching can hurt like crazy, or drive her crazy. Also, in the days before her period arrives, a woman’s breasts tend to swell and become extra sensitive. Start kissing her breasts slowly and gently. Gradually start to apply more pressure, squeeze and suck a little harder, and press her nipple tighter between your lips *not your teeth!*. She’ll give you cues as to whether she wants more. And don’t be afraid to ask.
5. BACK: A woman’s back is like sculpted artwork and should not be neglected. Kiss downward from her nape as lightly as you can. Try to let your lips graze the tiny hairs along her spine, without actually touching her skin. Hold her tight as this will cause her body to break out in goosebumps.
6. HER MIDDLE: The area below a woman’s breasts and above her waist is often treated as a no-man’s-land. This need not be the case, the skin here, if kissed right can drive her as crazy as kissing her neck.
7. INNER THIGHS: This is one of the sexiest areas on a woman’s body. It’s also one of the most sensitive. Just running your fingers lightly over it, even through jeans can excite her. Imagine what kissing can do. Start around mid-thigh with smaller, dry kisses. Work your way up letting the kisses get wetter and linger longer. When you’re almost to the top of the leg, suck with medium pressure and wetness and drive her wild.
8. HER GARDEN: If you’ve put in a good amount of foreplay, her Garden will already be extremely sensitive, so start very slowly with soft kisses on the outer lips. Then, part these outer lips with your tongue and kiss her inner lips. Tease her with lots of small kisses. The anticipation will drive her wild, but she’ll love it if you make it worth her wait.
Unfortunately, many guys see a woman’s pleasure as optional. Don’t be that guy. If you want to be a great lover, you absolutely must know how to kiss these places. A skilled lover is one who has a wide array of skills and techniques in his repertoire. He can call on any of these tools to mix and match, and drive a woman crazy.